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Catholic Public Domain Version

Deuteronomy 22:16

“And the father shall say: 'I gave my daughter to this man as a wife. And because he hates her,”

Verse Explanation

A saved explanation for Deuteronomy 22:16.

Plain-language explanation

The verse describes a situation where a father addresses a marriage. He says he gave his daughter to this man as a wife, but then introduces the reason for trouble: the father indicates that the man hates her.

Catholic context

Many Catholics understand this passage as part of God’s provision for justice within a society where family life and marriage were central. The broader law in this section aims to protect the vulnerable and to deal seriously with false accusations or cruel treatment. (Read carefully alongside the surrounding verses to see how the rules function.)

Historical background

In ancient Israel, marriage was deeply connected to family honor, economic stability, and protection. A father speaking publicly about a marriage reflects the reality that families often bore responsibility for their daughters’ welfare. The reference to a husband “hating” his wife signals serious mistreatment within a covenantal household.

Reflection

Even in ancient legal language, the heart of the passage points toward the dignity of the wife and the responsibility of the husband. If love breaks down into hatred, the community and the law are meant to respond with seriousness rather than ignore suffering.

Practical takeaway

For daily life: treat your commitments with fidelity and charity. If you are in a relationship, choose actions that protect and honor the other person—not bitterness or contempt. And if there is harm, seek appropriate help and accountability (through trusted leaders, family, or professional support).

Prayer

God of justice and mercy, help me to value every person with true love. Give me a heart that protects rather than harms, and teach me to respond with honesty and charity when relationships are strained. Grant peace to those who suffer and wisdom to those who seek to help. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.