Catholic Public Domain Version
Exodus 21:5
“And if the servant will say, 'I love my lord, and my wife and children, I will not depart freely,'”
Verse Explanation
A saved explanation for Exodus 21:5.
Plain-language explanation
Exodus 21:5 describes a servant who could have chosen to leave freely, but instead chooses to stay because he loves his master and his own household (his wife and children). It’s a voluntary decision to remain.
Catholic context
Many Catholics read this passage as emphasizing the goodness of honoring relationships and commitments. The verse highlights that what follows is not forced affection, but a deliberate choice made from love and responsibility toward family and obligations.
Historical background
In ancient Israel, servanthood could be related to debt or circumstances, and there were legal protections. This verse points to a specific situation where a servant had the right to leave, but elected to remain—often tied to continuing life with his family in that household.
Reflection
Love can shape a faithful choice. The servant’s decision is not casual—it includes his love for his master and his care for his wife and children. It invites us to consider what we are choosing to remain committed to, especially when we have options to walk away.
Practical takeaway
When faced with difficult responsibilities, ask: “Is my choice rooted in love and responsibility?” Choose steadfastness in the duties of your state in life—family, work, community—especially where love calls you to stay.
Prayer
Lord, give me a heart that chooses what is good and faithful. Teach me to love with sincerity—my family, my responsibilities, and the people You place in my path. Help me make choices that honor You, even when it would be easier to leave. Amen.